Seven Tips to Discipline your Inner Self

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  1. Seek Refuge from Shaytan

As soon as you get a negative thought about someone, realize that Shaytan is playing with your mind. Don’t let him win. Instead, ask Allah (swt) to protect you from him.

  1. Focus on the Facts

When something happens that you do not understand or like, understand the facts. By taking a colder look at the facts, you will see that the situation is lot less dramatic than you originally thought.

  1. Analyze your Interpretation

How are you interpreting the facts? This is usually what is triggering your negative emotions-except that you have added this interpretation yourself, and that you can choose to have an empowering interpretation instead.

  1. Don’t make people into villains

As difficult as it may feel, let go of the idea that someone else in your situation is the enemy who is out to get you. Stop making others wrong and yourself right.

  1. Avoid Playing the Victim

By choosing to put yourself into the role of the innocent victim, you are avoiding taking responsibility for your situation. Instead, be proactive and look at what you can do to make the situation better.

  1. Make Excuses for Others

The Sunnah encourages us to think good of others and make excuses for them whenever possible. In fact, Hazrat Umar (rta) said: “Do not think badly of a word uttered by your brother when you can find a good interpretation for it.”

  1. Take Responsibility for Yourself

Allah (swt) has given you freewill-  no matter how difficult a situation may appear to you, it is entirely up to you how you choose to react. Remember-  the test of life is not what happens to you, but whether you deal with it in a manner that is pleasing to Allah (swt).

May Allah (swt) give me and you the Tawfeeq to implement these tips. Ameen.


Transcribed for hiba by Anoshia Riaz


Successful Parenting and You: Golden Tips to be at Finger Tips

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Allah (swt) has granted great status to parents- not only because they bring the children in this world, but they are raising future Muslims. Children are the responsibility of parents, and Allah (swt) will ask about that responsibility on the Day of Judgement. Parenting is not an easy job, and can’t be learned from any book- one can learn it from experience only.


Mostly, the word ‘respect’ is associated with elders only. But, children also have the right to be respected.

Sometimes, parents scold or shout at their children in front of friends and cousins. In such situations, children face shame and humiliation. Parents can scold their children, but everything has a way to be done.

“Don’t yell at your children, when you yell the message is lost. Speak calmly for words to be heard, and they’ll retain the message better”. (Mufti Ismail Menk)

Give respect to your children to gain respect. When children feel respected, it boosts their self-esteem.


All parents love their children, but only a few express that love. Parents should express their love to children by actions live kissing, hugging and complimenting them. One can learn from Prophet Muhammad’s (sa) behaviour with kids also. Prophet (sa) also said:

“He is not from us who does not show mercy to the young, and does not honour the old.” (Tirmidhi)

Comparison Is Not Good

Parents compare their child with children of the same age group. This shouldn’t be done. Every person has its own abilities and talents. The comparison may lead to wrong way. They should encourage their children for doing good things and build their confidence. What happens next after this comparison is a child starts to copy others- instead of discovering his/her hidden talent and polishing own skills.

“As parents, we must learn from our children and guide them in daily lives. Parenting goes both ways- it’s a give and take relationship”.  (Mufti Ismail Menk)

Give Attention

Sometimes parents complain that my child doesn’t pay attention to whatever I say. He/she does not bother to listen. I think, somewhere, it is their fault because a child seeks full attention of parents which they fail to give. This often occurs when mothers are helping their young children to do homework, their finger of one hand is on a copy of child, and the other hand is on a smart phone.

Also, elders don’t listen to younger ones whole heartedly; or do not let them complete because they are taking a lot time to convey their matter. Parents should give full attention to their children, and let them talk. They should spend quality time with them indulging in activities like storytelling, cooking their favourite food, playing games.

“Spending time with children is more important than spending money on them’’. (Mufti Ismail Menk)

Avoid Nicknames

Don’t call your children by nicknames like “Munnu” or “Baby”. Name has an impact on personality. If you call your child by a nickname, then avoid calling by that name in the presence of his/her friends. Sometimes these nicknames embarrass children in a gathering of friends and school.

Parents are Role Models

I heard my 4-year-old cousin saying: “Mama, I want to be like you. I want to wear earrings like you and have long hair like yours.” This shows that children follow their parents, and want to be like them. So, that’s why parents should be careful of their actions and words in front of children- because these little ones are great observers as well.



Top Five Thoughts to Forgive Anyone

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How can you forgive someone when it seems too difficult? Try considering the following:


  1. It is the fastest way for you to get Allah’s (swt) forgiveness; ask yourself this question from the Quran- Do you not want that Allah should forgive you?
  1. It will free you from the pain- for holding onto bitterness makes you suffer. If you find their mistakes too big, remember that by definition, forgiveness is when they don’t deserve it.
  1. Forgiveness is the quality of the people of Taqwa. Do it for yourself if you want to be a person of Taqwa who enters Jannah.
  1. You want people to forgive you. You need others to forgive your mistakes instead of settling the score because you want peace on the Day of Judgement.
  1. What if they die tomorrow? Would you still feel angry, or would you feel regret for how things ended? Make peace with them now when you still have the choice.


May Allah (swt) make forgiveness easy for us. Ameen.

Transcribed for hiba by Anoshia Riaz





Parenting – Create Loving Homes for Your Children

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For raising our children to become responsible and well-groomed Muslim youth, we, as parents, have to put forth efforts into development of their character and personality. Since home is the first nurturing place of every child, it is of utmost importance to create within it a supportive atmosphere, which will facilitate the stability and confidence of our children. The following tips will help you to build loving homes for your children:

1. Trust comes first

Parents and children should have a relationship based on friendship and trust. No matter what age they are, our children need guidance from the inside of the home, not the outside.

We cannot be sure of the motives of people giving them guidance from outside; thus, they should feel confident enough to seek guidance at home, without feeling the need to look for outside sources.

2. Home Safe Home

Home should be the most comfortable place for your children. If they are not comfortable staying home for studying, playing and relaxing, they may look for options out of the home, which can become a negative influence on them.

3. Be the problem solver

Trust your children. Give them as much space, as they are comfortable to share with you. If they have a problem, listen to them and help solving it- instead of making a big issue of it, which would encourage your kids to hide from you their other problems.

4. Befriend their friends

Know the friends of your children for ensuring that they are in a good company. Let your children invite their friends to your home, so you can keep a watch over them and get to know them.

5. Keep a hawk’s eye

Keep parental controls over social media, technologies, gaming and mobile phones. There are more wolves out there than you can imagine.

6. Stay tuned to their life channel

Never be overly confident that your child is the purest person on earth. It may happen that our children fall in bad company, which affects them in ways we could not have dreamed of.

7. Family’s day out

Limit the time your children spend with their friends and increase family outings to compensate for it. Sleepover at any friend’s place must be a big ‘no’.

8. Their life, their choice- Accept!

Accept your children’s choices, whenever possible. Often they are not wrong in asking what they wish for, whether it is their career choice or even a prospective spouse.

9. Matured rightly? Time to marry!

Encourage your children to marry early, as that helps in character building and assuming a responsible attitude towards life. This is encouraged also in the Sunnah. From our surroundings, we can see the repercussions of doing the opposite. If you are against early marriage, your child may find an alternative in the form of a girlfriend or boyfriend outside the home. Thus, it is wise to marry your children, both boys and girls, when you are sure they are mature enough to think rightly.

10. Home is not a place, it’s a feeling

Don’t build a luxurious and lavish house for your children, indulging them with the material goods of this world. Instead, make loving homes for them, guide them with advice and nourish them emotionally, so that they are ready to face the adverse environment of today’s society.



Tips to Get Closer to Allah (swt)

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Some tips to get closer to Allah (swt) are:

Call out to Him

Make Dua to Allah (swt). When you take one step towards Allah (swt), He will take ten steps towards you. So, ask Allah (swt) to help you get closer to Him, and to accept all of your actions.

Some good stories must stay untold

Do more secret good deeds. Hide rather than publicize your good deeds. Without the watchful eyes of people, it will be easier to purify your intentions, and do things for the sake of Allah (swt).

Death is running after you

Remember death. Death is the only thing guaranteed in life; so remember where you are heading. Imagine lying in your grave; imagine the angels questioning you; and imagine standing in front of Allah (swt) on the Day of Judgement.

Nothing is sweeter than His own name

Find out Allah’s (swt) names and attributes. The more you know about Allah (swt), the more your heart will become attached to Him. Also, learn about the life of the Prophet (sa) and his companions; this will increase your love for them, and ultimately, your love for Allah (swt).

Keep Allah (swt)-loving company

Find good friends. The Prophet (sa) said: “A man will follow the religion of his close friend; so let each of you look to whom he takes as a close friend.” It is critical to surround yourself with friends who will help you get closer to Allah (swt).

Connect with the Quran daily

The Quran contains Allah’s (swt) words to us, which is medicine for our soul. Set aside time daily to read the Arabic and translation- even if it’s a small amount, and reflect on the meaning.

Speak your heart in Salah

Understand what you recite in Salah. The prayer allows you to speak to Allah (swt), but it will only deeply affect your heart when you understand what you’re saying. Learn the meaning of the words, and think about the meaning as you pray.

May Allah (swt) give me and you the Tawfeeq to implement these tips. Jazak’Allah Khair.


Transcribed for hiba by Saneya Qadir

First my Mother- Forever my Friend

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The Holy Prophet (sa) said: “Paradise lies under the feet of mother.” This Hadeeth highlights the importance of a mother, and the role of a mother in a child’s life.

A mother is not only the gateway of paradise for a child; rather she is a ray of hope in all problems.

She pulls a child out from all the difficulties, and enables him to transcend all the barriers, and cross all obstacles.


I experienced a serious problem a few weeks ago. I was bullied for being short. My classmates used to make fun of me and call me “Choti Auntie (short-heighted woman).” As a result, I became increasingly conscious about my appearance, and became quite self diffident. I talked to some friends about it, and they told me not to worry about it. Their satisfying words did not satiate me completely- as the thought of being physically defected had made a niche in my mind.


All the other thoughts of positivity could not pass through this barrier of self doubt. My mother is an extremely conscious lady. She observes all the family members to find out whether they are okay or not. She had been noticing my odd behaviour. I had not been eating well. I had been skipping meals, and staying quite doleful. She observed my condition for a week after which she made her move. After Fajr, my mother called me and asked me to go for a walk. I declined at first because I was not in the mood. She persisted and I gave in. We went to a park near our house for the walk. We walked for about five minutes after which my mother finally spoke up.


She asked me why I had been too different recently. “School stuff and stress!” I replied in an impassive way. She persuaded me, and finally convinced me into telling her why I was so upset. I told her about being bullied. I explained that I had become the laughing stock of my class fellows because of my short height. She listened to all my complaints with concern. I started to cry and she began to console me. I realised that day that the only shoulder which can offer me satisfaction and calm my inner storm is that of my mother.


She explained how people become jealous of your abilities, and point out flaws in you to let you down. Her soothing words made me re-think about my behaviour for the past few days, and I reached the conclusion that I should not waste my time thinking about the flaws. Her words instilled a positive spirit in me.


It is strange how a mother’s love and her kind words can cure the incurable wounds easily.

The status of mother has been raised because of the affection she showers to a child. Specifically, the bond between a mother and daughter is unique, and cannot be put into words. We face many problems in our life, and the sole remedy is Mother. Respect and love her and cherish those lovely mother-daughter moments. Do not feel low or uncomfortable due to the mean and rude remarks of others; rather keep your self-esteem high and fight all odds.

Homemade Chicken Shawarma- irresistible, satiating, and oh so delicious!

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For the chicken:

  • 1 chicken breast piece cut into thin strips
  • ¼ tsp. ginger powder
  • ¼ tsp. all spice powder
  • Salt as per taste
  • ½ tsp. black pepper powder
  • ½ tsp. white pepper powder
  • 1 tsp. roasted cumin powder
  • 1 tsp. dry crushed coriander
  • ½-1 tsp. red chilli flakes
  • ½ tsp. lemon juice
  • 2-3 tbsp. yogurt

Mix all the above ingredients with chicken pieces, and leave for marination for at least ½ an hour.

For the pita bread dough

  • 3 cups refined flour (Maida) i.e. 24 tbsp.
  • Water for making the dough (1 to 1.25 cup)
  • ½ tbsp. salt
  • ½ tbsp. salt
  • Pinch of sugar

For the pickle

  • 1 carrot
  • 1 onion
  • 1 cucumber
  • 1 tomato
  • Salt as per taste
  • 1 tsp. black or white pepper
  • ½ tsp. red chili flakes
  • 2-3 tbsp. white vinegar

For the sauce

  • 5 tbsp. yoghurt
  • 1 tbsp. crushed garlic
  • Salt as per liking
  • ½ lemon juice
  • ½ tsp. white pepper powder

Mix all of the sauce ingredients.


How to make:

The Pita bread

  • In a cup, add the sugar and water, and let the sugar dissolve. Then, add in yeast and keep aside for 10-ten minutes.
  • Add salt in flour, and make into dough using the yeast mixture.
  • Apply a thin layer of oil on your prepared dough, and cover with cling film /large bowl. Leave for at least ¾ hour.
  • Once your dough is proofed, make round pita breads with a rolling pin. Dust your work surface with flour to prevent dough from sticking. If the dough is sticky sprinkle some more flour.
  • Cook your pita bread on a girdle. As soon as you transfer your pita bread on the girdle, cover it with a pan’s lid for 5-10 seconds.
  • Remove the lid, flip your pita bread and drizzle oil around it.Once your pita bread is cooked, remove it from a girdle. Make sure that it doesn’t get chapatti like brown spots by continuously flipping the pita, while cooking.

The Chicken

  • Drizzle a bit of oil in a pan and add your marinade, turn the flame to medium and cover your pan.
  • Once the chicken is tender and all water has evaporated, take the chicken out in a dish.

The Pickle

  • Cut vegetables into thin strips.
  • Heat vinegar in a pan on low-medium flame.
  • Add pickle ingredients and stir.
  • Once the vegetables are soft, keep aside.

The assembling of Shawarma

Your hard work and patience is about to pay off.

  • On two butter papers place pita bread and spread the sauce all over it.
  • Place 3-4 thin tomato slices vertically in the center of the pita.
  • Next, place the pickle, then chicken and then some more pickle.
  • Now add in more sauce (and if you like then any other available sauce, as well.)
  • Make it into a roll and wrap with butter paper.

And voila! Your Chicken Shawarma is ready to be devoured.


‘Allahu Akbar’- Do we really mean it?

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We hear the phrase “Allahu Akbar” being used and misused daily. Some use it to declare the Glory and Enormity of Allah (swt), while some misuse it to legitimize their own personal animosity towards certain people.

When we use certain phrases much frequently, such as, Allahu Akbar, Subhan’Allah, Alhumdulillah, and Masha’Allah, we lose the true essence of these phrases, and use them as a sheer habit.


When we say “Subhan’Allah”, it means we are declaring His Exaltation and His Glory. When we say “Alhumdulillah”, it means we praise Him for all the blessings He has bestowed up on us. These phrases are much more than a set of words. They are a part of our faith in Allah (swt). Similarly, Allahu Akbar is much more than just two words. Even if a whole book is written on these two words, it would not do justice to what they truly contain.


Allahu Akbar – Social Media is a liar!

Social Media is full of negative content that shows the world that “Allahu Akbar” is used mostly when people of sick and twisted minds kill others

. Muslims who are true in faith say Allahu Akbar when they are startled by His miracles up on the earth; when they are frightened by disasters and calling for His help; when they are scared and weak; when they are joyful and at their peak; when they announce their love and trust in Him.


Who is the Master of the miraculous galaxies- Allahu Akbar

Allahu Akbar means Allah is the Greatest. Earth is approximately 85,345,714,285,714,286 times bigger than an adult human being. Earth’s sun is so large that 1,300,000 planet earths could fit inside the sun. The star Eta Carinae is over 5,000,000 (five million) times larger than our sun. Star Betelgueuse is 300 times larger than star Eta Crinae.  VY Canismajoris is a billion times larger than our sun.

The galaxy we live in is called “Milky Way”. It has all these stars and planets within our solar system. There are 300 billion suns within our own galaxy.

If we can travel at a speed of 300,000 km/sec, it would take us 100,000 years to reach the end of our galaxy. This is not all.


We have a neighbour galaxy which is called “Andromeda”. It is twice in size compared to our galaxy. There is another galaxy called M81, which is 60 times bigger than our galaxy, whereas galaxy IC01011 is 600 times bigger than our galaxy. Remember, that each galaxy has billions of suns million times bigger than our sun, which is 1,300,000 times bigger than our earth, which is 85,345,714,285,714,286 times bigger than a human being. But this is not all; the way stars and planets make galaxies, similarly galaxies make clusters. We live in “Virgo” cluster which has more than fifty four 54 galaxies. Clusters together make “super clusters”.  Our super cluster is known as “Local Group Galaxy Cluster”, which has 100 clusters in it approximately. The number of super clusters in the “observable universe” is estimated to be 10 million. The diameter of observable universe is 93 billion light years. One light year equals to 10 trillion kilometers. This is only what is observable to us. This is the Creation of The One, The Only, Allah (swt).


The Power of His Right Hand

Allah says, “They made not a just estimate of Allah such as is due to Him. And on the Day of Resurrection the whole of the earth will be grasped by His Hand and the heavens will be rolled up in His Right Hand. Glorified is He, and High is He above all that they associate as partners with Him!.” (Az-Zumar 39:67)

Recall what is explained above, and imagine it in Allah’s (swt) right hand. This is the meaning of Allahu Akbar – Allah is the Greatest! How can we be arrogant? We have no control over anything. He has all the Power and Control over everything. Allahu Akbar – Allah (swt) is the Greatest! This is just a small fraction of Allah’s (swt) Might. This is what our weak minds can collect and imagine. Allahu Akbar – Allah is the Greatest! Whenever we say Allahu Akbar, we must understand what it truly means; and once we comprehend, we must fall in prostration immediately.


Exclusive Interview with Ustadh Asif Uddin

Hiba Magazine conducted an exclusive interview with Ustadh Asif Uddin who was on a visit to Pakistan recently.

Ustadh Asif Uddin is a graduate of Business and Information Technology from the University of North London. He further pursued a Masters in Information System at Brunel University. He has been heavily involved in Dawah from the time he was at university. He is a keen student of knowledge and has studied the Islamic sciences in Mauritania, Egypt, and Qatar, and continues that journey today. Ustadh Asif gives weekly circles on Aqeedah and Tafseer and is a lecturer for Sabeel (Muslim Research and Development Foundation) and Chief Editor at

The interview was conducted by Talha Arif, a 15-year-old student of L2L Academy, on behalf of Hiba.

You can listen to the audio of the interview below:


How to Increase your Child’s I.Q Level?


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Intelligence quotient (I.Q) is a globally accepted score, or standard showing the person’s ability to understand the world. However, in short, I.Q is the way people perceive the world based on their understanding of the subject, backed by their information and knowledge gained through communication – reading, talking, and writing – and through observing.


Raising smarter children is, perhaps, the concern all parents are living with. With an ever-competitive and an ever-evolving world, parents want their child to know the world and the way to live in it; thereby using their own intellect and wisdom to take necessary decisions at the right time to lead a successful life.


Often times, parents do not realize the need to raise kids with a higher I.Q or with a mind that can decipher signs to make a worthwhile meaning out of it.

While, most parents are willing to make their children an example for others- enthusiastically making an effort to teach their children whatever they know. However, much more has to be done to broaden the child’s mental horizon. This article will look at ways through which parents can raise their child’s I.Q level.



Parents often believe that talking about everything with their children is not appropriate. However, any time is a good time to converse with your child about topics and issues of life you think are important, or which will affect your child in the future. Talking with children from an age when they understand words and simple concepts of life will build their vocabulary, help them talk better, and realize the world they live in. For instance, when the child is three to four years old you should talk to the child about cleanliness, about wearing neat clothes, about going early to bed, about the moon, the sun, and the stars. However, this conversation should be as simple as ABC, thereby telling the children what you mean without you sounding too mature for them to understand your content.


 Children become confident when parents talk to them. Since, children reply to this conversation- they use their mind to think of answers, and use observation to know more about what to add to the conversation.

Have you ever wondered why children living in a joint family system are more confident? It is because of too many people (apart from their parents and siblings) are talking to them every day. Talk to your child as if you are talking to an adult but in a simple language. It is the parent’s words, which creates a child’s personality.


Read with them, Read to them

Reading, among all modes of communication, is by far the most important tool in making your child confident and intelligent. Colorful books with illustrations and lots of information, stories, facts, and comics, give a child the sense to see things, learn, and implement in life. Helping your child develop a reading habit is a gift the child will treasure for life. Sit with your child for half an hour or an hour – depending on your availability and the child’s mood – and read to them, or read them books they are fond of; Asking them questions on your own- as you read to them- will also help the child in thinking out of the box. All bookstores have a children’s section. You can buy books covering all genres and topics, in all sizes for your child so they can read, learn, and accumulate information in their mind that will help them as they grow up. For toddlers, books about shapes, colors, sizes, alphabets, things, and other concept books a must-read by parents.


Memory Test

Having a good memory is also imperative for having a strong I.Q. When reading books to your child, ask questions from the content they have read the same day, or a few days later, to check how much your child has retained in mind.

Some children take time recollecting memories from the past, while others talk to their parents about the past on their own. Do not worry if the child has trouble memorizing things as a memory, like a language and writing, develops on its own.


Never get Angry

Children have a weird temper. They have their moods, and you cannot change them. Do not get angry if the child is not focusing on a task. Give the child time to adjust, or use a different strategy. Lure them in studying, playing, or talking by giving them an incentive of a chocolate or taking them out for a walk once they finish the talk. Never get angry with them, or they will lose the motivation to learn.


Math and Numbers

When talking to your child in everyday conversation, build the child’s mathematical and numerical skills. This may increase the I.Q- since every part of life has mathematics and numbers involved in it. Teach the child numbers from 1 to 100, or when playing with them ask them the number of toys they have. Moreover, make the child learn to read and tell time since it is all numbers-based.


Train the Mind

The child’s mind needs a parent’s constant nurturing, and the best way after reading to them is to make them play with block toys. Lego is perhaps the best toy available. It gives children an opportunity to use their creative skills and imagination to build anything they want. Let the child build whatever comes to mind for its makes the child confident.


Never Criticize

Criticism and disapproval kill the inside of a child. Even a child has built a strange object with Lego, or has drawn doodles on paper that makes no sense, always encourage them and motivate them and appreciate their efforts. This is the only way to make them believe in themselves. Self-belief is the only way any child can attain greatness in life and parents are the ones who can introduce this in their child.


Let them Do it!

Often parents want to complete their child’s entire task. When the child is able to walk, hold things, and have understood basic concepts of life- let them complete simple tasks. These include tying shoelaces, putting toys in one place, putting up shirt buttons, wearing socks, combing their hair, drinking water from the glass, drawing, climbing up and down on a bed, or sofa, and so on. Giving the child the room to complete tasks, and appreciating once done, will be a morale booster.


Bring Home the Bacon- The Islamic way!

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Islam upholds certain distinct values, singling it out from all other prevalent religions present upon the globe. Among these values stands the prominent issue of choosing career. Making money is the need of every human being on the globe, irrespective of the religion to which they belong. Denouncement of career or jobs would only make the survival more problematic.

An acute moment in life of a Muslim is to opt for the suitable career. One does not have to follow the norm of society, but actually interpret the multiple sides of that particular career to determine its relevance in religion. The selection must be parallel to Islamic injunctions, incapable to impair productivity of Muslim, and possess sufficient potential to raise levels of a person in Hereafter.

An ideal case would be to select an option in career that would benefit the entire Muslim Ummah, as well as, provide sustenance to the individual himself.

Following are a few steps that must be followed by an individual when making career decisions:


Career-lifestyle match

A person will never be productive enough in his job- unless he puts his heart into that task. Evaluate your strengths and weaknesses- with particular focus on the subjects you enjoy. Carefully weigh the implications of certain career on your lifestyle, then contrast those with the kind of lifestyle you desire; pursue the chosen field if these go hand in hand. Cast aside if they don’t.



It is highly important for one to consult elders when making grim career-oriented decisions-  that ought to have far-reaching consequences upon one’s life. Since career building matters to yield long term results, one shall always consult with parents, guardians, teachers and fellows prior to making any decision. They will provide sincere and experienced thoughts about the issue, helping in acquiring a more reliable and beneficial decision



A mandatory condition for all considered career opportunities is that, they must serve Halal income.

Abu Hurairah (rta) said: “The Messenger of Allah (sa) said: ‘if one of you were to carry a bundle of firewood on his back and sell it, that would be better than asking a man who may or may not give him something.”‘ (An-Nasai)

Working to earn a Halal earning is a religious obligation in itself, apart from the other basic obligatory acts- like fasting, Hajj and Zakat.

Material pleasures may come and pass eventually, but the earning means are recorded in the Deed Book, for eternity. Islam does not even deny the manual labour when it comes down to earning.

Therefore, whatever career you choose, evaluate the Islamic limits, and whether the profession falls within the premises of Islamic guidelines.


Connecting Career with Ibadah

When a person opts for any career, particularly Muslim, he must have a religious perspective in sight, too. That would mean that he must only go for the career that would allow him to follow teachings of Allah (swt), and remain steadfast to Islamic laws. This will be then imputed as a good deed, Insha’Allah.

“Shaytan (Satan) threatens you with poverty and orders you to commit Fahsha (evil deeds, illegal sexual intercourse, sins etc.); whereas Allah promises you Forgiveness from Himself and Bounty, and Allah is All-Sufficient for His creatures’ needs, All-Knower.” (Al-Baqarah 2:268).

This point also implies that an individual must choose a profession that would benefit the Ummah directly or in the long run.

However, from a larger perspective, align your intentions with the pleasure of Allah (swt). Let Him know how you aim at using wealth from the endeavors you make, and how you want this career to be a source of worldly fulfillment in conjunction with success in after life.


Seek Allah’s (swt)Assistance

All human efforts are meaningless- unless they are in accordance with Allah’s (swt) commands, or seeking His pleasure. Humankind, as frail as it is, is always at the risk of attaining wrath of Allah (swt) through the actions attempted in ignorance, or in complete senses. In order to reduce the probability of falling under Allah’s (swt) disgrace, be assured that you follow His commands. Refer to Him in all matters, and make Him your confidant for He truly is the only One to show correct path.

Thus, we conclude this topic with the belief that-  no matter what profession we choose, we need to stand on firm-footing about its placement in Islam- along with imploring for Allah’s (swt) help constantly. The sound repercussions of such career would clearly be felt throughout one’s life.



Live with Olive- If You Love Yourself!

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There are a number of foods mentioned in the Quran, one of which is the Olive. Olive is considered as a “blessed” fruit in Islam; and not only is a good source of nutrition, it is also used for skin care.

Olive Oil favoured in the Quran

Allah (swt) mentions Olive in the following words,

“Allah is the Light of the heavens and the earth. The parable of His Light is as (if there were) a niche and within it a lamp, the lamp is in glass, the glass as it were a brilliant star, lit from a blessed tree, an olive, neither of the east (i.e., it neither gets sun-rays only in the morning) nor of the west (i.e., nor does it get sun-rays only in the afternoon – but it is exposed to the sun all day long), whose oil would almost glow forth (of itself), though no fire touched it. Light upon Light! Allah guides to His Light whom He wills. And Allah sets forth parables for mankind, and Allah is All-Knower of everything.” (An-Nur 24:35)

Olive oil is a treasure trove of numerous health benefits. Not only is its topical use beneficial, but its consumption is known to treat and prevent ailments, like blood pressure, cancer and inflammation, to name a few.

It is narrated by Abu Hurairah (rta) that the Prophet (sa) stated:”Eat the olive oil and apply it (locally), since there is cure for seventy diseases in it, one of them is Leprosy.”

Benefits of Olive Oil- in the light of Quran and Sunnah

Keeps Cancer at bay
Researchers at the Oxford University have found that olive oil diminishes the level of bile, and increases the enzyme Di-Amine Oxidase (DAO), thus protecting against abnormal cell growth and cancer. A recent break through research revealed that an antioxidant present in olive oil, Oleocanthal, wiped out cancer cells in lab under 30-thirty minutes, without damaging healthy cells.

According to a study conducted by researchers from Rutgers University and Hunter College (and published in the journal Molecular & Cellular Oncology)- the major antioxidant compound found in olive oil is capable of killing cancer cells in less than an hour while leaving healthy cells unharmed.

Cures constipation

Prophet Muhammad (sa) said: “There is olive oil for you, eat it, massage it over your body, since it is effective in Hemorrhoids (Piles).”

Olive oil aids in the lubrication of digestive system, thereby making everything much easier to move. Its consumption softens hard stool and, hence, relieves constipation.

Say Goodbye to Inflammation

Olive oils contains a naturally occurring anti-inflammatory compound. It’s anti-inflammatory nature makes it a natural pain reliever and assists in the prevention of inflammatory diseases e.g. lung cancer, dementia, arthritis.

According to researchers’ reports, people who consume large quantities of olive oil, and cooked vegetables can have a reduced risk of rheumatic arthritis, a chronic inflammatory disease of the joints.

Assists Bone Development

Olive oil strengthens bone by fixing calcium, making it an important food source for elderly and children. It is especially beneficial for the elderly- as it is easily digested, and assists body in utilization of vitamins. Olive oil’s ability to stimulate bone mineralization prevents calcium loss. This ability makes it a valuable food source, since the whole body of an organism is dependent on a strong bone structure.

Prevention of Aging

Olive oil contains vitamins that renew cells, and thus, protect and nourish skin. Its anti-ageing effects can be enjoyed either by consumption in the form of salad dressing, or by topical application in the form of massage.

The reserve of vitamin E found in olive oil inhibits the free radicals that are responsible for cell destruction and aging.

Good for Babies’ Development

The rich amount of healthy fats, and antioxidants, present in olive oil are crucial for the physical development of babies’. Olive oil, containing the same fat as those present in mother’s milk, is beneficial for a child’s growth. Moreover, it contributes to the development of a child’s nervous system. Research provides evidence that the women who consume olive oil during pregnancy become mothers of healthy babies.

Assists in Blood Pressure Reduction

Our diet, consisting of junk foods, processed items and overcooked meals, is highly responsible for the rising issue of blood pressure in the population. One study published in the Archives of Internal Medicine stressed the beneficial effect of olive oil on high blood pressure. In fact, the medicines to reduce high blood pressure are also made from olive leaves.

“And a tree (olive) that springs forth from Mount Sinai, that grows oil, and (it is a) relish for the eaters.” (Al-Muminun 23:20)

Combatant for Osteoporosis

With age, our bone mass starts to decrease. In women, this reduction in bone mass often results in osteoporosis. Osteoporosis makes the structure of tissues and bones more fragile, thereby making one more susceptible to fractures and fatal injuries. Research has revealed that consumption of olive oil, either through cooking or through supplementation, helps in increasing bone mass. The intake of Olive oil would, therefore, be effective in preventing osteoporosis.

Remedy for Skin and Beauty

Our beloved Prophet (sa) said: “Eat the oil and use it on your hair and skin, for it comes from a blessed tree.” (Tirmidhi)

Olive oil has been used for centuries by queens and princesses to enhance beauty. I too endorse the benefits of olive oil for skin and beauty. Massaging your face once a day with olive oil can, over the time, minimize the appearance of dark spots, wrinkle, dark circles, and crow’s feet. It also keeps skin moisturized and gives it a “lit-within” glow. Its rejuvenating properties assist, on consistent use, in the healing of scars and stretch marks.

Care for Hair

Olive oil does wonders on your hair. A regular scalp massage is not only pain relieving, but also stimulates hair growth. Its moisture help controls frizz, and gives hair volume and shine.



Innovators in Islam: Say ‘Hello’ to Hellfire

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Today, everything is available online, and Muslims fall for anything- because of their lack of knowledge about Quran and Sunnah. This results in practicing rituals that were never practiced by the Prophet Muhammad (sa), or by his companions (rta). These practices are wrongly associated with Islam. If I even dare to mention all innovations that we see educated people practicing in the name of religion, people would declare war here. This extremism is also due to falling prey to Shaytan.

Muslims belonging to any sect have one thing in common, which joins all of them together in the end- Quran and Sunnah

. Anything out of it or in addition to it- has to be rejected by every single Muslim. We need to study Quran and Sunnah to correct our practices, and leave which are wrong.

The disbelievers of Quraish tribe in Prophet’s (sa) time didn’t accept Islam because they weren’t ready to leave the ways of their ancestors.

Today, we don’t want to leave the innovations that were introduced as part of Islam, and practiced by our ancestors.

Definition of Bid’ah – Innovation 

Bid’ah is a new thing, introduced to and made part of the Deen (Islam) that has no origin what so ever from the Quran or the Sunnah of RasulAllah (sa).

Imam Bukhari and Imam Muslim write that there was some companions talking and the Prophet (sa) was listening. One of them said: ‘I will make prayers (Salah) all night long.’ The second said: ‘I will fast (Sawm) all the time.’ The third said: ‘I will never marry.’ When our Prophet  (sa) heard them say this, he said: ‘I am the most Allah (swt) conscious than any of you. I pray (Salah,) I fast (Sawm) as well, and I do marry women. And, who so turns his face from my Sunnah, cannot be of my Ummah’. (Mishkat, Muslim, Bukhari)

The reason why our Prophet (sa) stopped them from doing what they wanted to do was because it was against Sunnah (his way). Whatever we do which is against the way of our Prophets (sa) Sunnah is a Bid’ah Sayiah.

RasulAllah (sa) stated: “On the Day of Judgement, some people will come to me when I will be standing by Haudh-e-Kauser (Well). They will be grabbed and taken towards the Hellfire. I shall say: “These are my people,” but in reply I will be told: “These are the people who introduced innovations after you, so they are unbelievers.” (Bukhari, Muslim, Kitab-ul-Haudh)

A person once sent Salam to Abdullah Ibn Umar (rta) who replied: I do not accept his Salam, as this person has innovated by becoming Qadriyyah (A sect which does not believe in destiny) (Mishkat, Kitab-ul-Iman wa-al-Qadr, transmitted by Abu Dawood, Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah)

The above narration emphasizes upon the fact that Bid’ah is to hold such an Aqeedah which is in direct opposition to the Quran and Sunnah- i.e. to become Qadriyyah, Jabriyya etc.

RasulAllah (sa) stated: “Every innovation leads astray; and every creator of the astray goes in the Fire.” (Muslim)

An example of this Bid’ah is given by Hafidh Ibn Al-Qayyim who writes: ‘The one who denies the punishment of the grave is an innovator’. (Kitab-ur-Rooh)

Some people think that if they are just following someone else, as long as they themselves did not invent something, then their action is acceptable. This is not true; every person is responsible for being diligent in making sure their actions are correct. Emulating and following the Prophet (sa) is a Quranic obligation. Allah (swt), the Almighty says,

“Indeed in the Messenger of Allah (Muhammad (sa) you have a good example to follow for him who hopes in (the Meeting with) Allah and the Last Day and remembers Allah much.” (Al-Ahzab 33:21)

Hadeeth about innovation in Deen (Bid’ah)

و كل بدعة ضلالة، وكل ضلالة في النار

And every innovation (in Deen) is misguidance, and all misguidance is in the Hellfire.

ہر بدعت گمراہی ہے اور گمراہی کا انجام جہنم ہے۔

( Muslim)

No doubt, it is obligatory for the Muslim to be a follower of his Prophet (sa) in what he prescribed; and it is not permissible for him to go against him, or to introduce any innovation in the religion for any reason whatsoever.

It is Bid’ah if…..

It should be noted that differing from the way of the Prophet (sa) and falling into Bid‘ah may mean one of two things:

  1. Introducing an act of worship for which there is no basis in Islam, such as touching graves and seeking help from their occupants. The scholars call this real innovation (Al-Bid‘ah Al-Haqeeqah). This is that which was not prescribed at all.
  1. The act of worship may be originally prescribed in Islam, and what is contrary to the Sunnah may have to do with defining a certain time or place for it, or a certain number of times it is to be repeated, or the manner in which it is to be done or the reason for which it is to be done. This is called innovation by addition (Al-Bid‘ah Al-Idafiyah); it is not Bid‘ah unless it is done regularly and repeatedly. If it is done only once or twice without adhering to that, then it is not Bid‘ah, such as if people pray Qiyam (night prayer) in congregation (Jam‘ah) on some occasion, without thinking that there is any particular virtue in doing so.

Common innovations of today

Some commonly seen innovations in today’s world which are passed on by the ancestors to modern day Muslims:

  1. Putting Quran on brides head during her Rukhsati.
  2. Ceremony of putting Quran first thing in a new office
  3. Mourning for the deceased on the tenth or fortieth day after his death.
  4. Putting finger in the grave right after burial and reciting selected verses for his protection in the grave.
  5. Putting perfume, Zamzam and other things in the grave.
  6. Celebrating special nights that are or are not mentioned in the Quran and Sunnah, and believing it is part of Islam.
  7. Wearing amulets for protection.
  8. Sacrificing animals in the name of saints.
  9. Celebrating birthdays of Prophets or Saints.
  10. Making monuments on graves or making solid graves.
  11. Believing in the altered concept of Tawassul.
  12. Believing in the Sufi methodology, their Tarikat such as believing that Allah (swt) can only be approached with the help of a Sheikh (Na’uzu billah)
  13. Singing Qawali- thinking it is part of Islam.
  14. Doing Tasbeeh on pebbles, and stones alone, or in a group.
  15. Making additional conditions of Salah which were never part of Sunnah.

Sadly, the innovations are increasing and the tolerance is decreasing. We refuse to listen to anyone else, and want to stick to whatever we do without even trying to open the book of Quran and Sunnah. This is how stubborn we have become.

When it comes to Bid’ah- those who are involved in it that have to prove its authenticity from Quran or Sunnah, not the other way around

. But if some persist, then my proof for classifying all the above as Bid’ah is that we do not find any reference to these actions in the Quran or authentic Ahadeeth which is classified as Sahih.


Note: If there is any error in the above list, then it is from me and Shaytan. I ask Allah (swt) for forgiveness for the mistakes and sins that we know, and for those that we do not know. And I ask Allah (swt) for guidance, mercy, faith, and compassion for all of us. Ameen.



Compass in the Ant’s Eye




We need guides to show us the direction when we travel to another country, or another city. In particular, when we do not know the place we are going to, we definitely must have a compass and a map. Map shows us where we are, and the compass shows us which way to go. We find the way by using these tools, and consulting other people so we do not get lost. Have you ever wondered how other creatures find their way? Have you ever thought how an ant seeking food in the desert returns to its nest?


Black desert ants inhabiting the Mediterranean coasts of Tunisia are among those creatures who build their nests in the desert.

These ants are very good at finding their way in the vast desert, and getting back to their nests without the help of a compass or a map.


As the sun rises, temperatures in the desert reach up to 70 degrees Celsius (158 degrees Fahrenheit). The ant leaves its nest to find food in the heat of the day. Frequently halting and turning around itself, it follows a devious route within an area that may be 200 meters (655 feet) away from the nest. You may see this route on the map. But do not think that the ant will get lost because of these zigzags. Once it finds a source of food, the ant follows a straight course and returns to the nest. With respect to their sizes, this journey of the ant may be compared to a man’s returning to his starting point taking a straight course after wandering 35-40 kilometers (22-25 miles) away from that point in the desert.



How is it that an ant successfully does a task that is virtually impossible for a human?


It cannot be that the ant finds its direction by looking at objects. Signs and way-marks such as trees, rocks, rivers or lakes which help one find the way are quite rare in the desert. There is only sand all around. Even if there were such signs, it would not make any difference, since it is not possible for an ant to keep these signs in mind, to memorize where they are, and to use them while finding its way. Thinking about it this way, one can better understand the significance of the task that the ant performs. The ant can perform this difficult task thanks to the special body structure it has been given.


There is a special direction-determination system in the ant’s eyes. This system that Allah (swt) placed in the ant’s eyes is more advanced than mechanical devices that determine direction.

Being able to perceive some rays that we cannot, the ant can determine directions, and know where north and south are. Thanks to this ability, it is not difficult at all for the ant to estimate where its nest is, and to return to it.


Human beings have lately become aware of the characteristics of light. However, the ant has known and used a characteristic of light, which was unknown to human beings, since it was born. Certainly, such a perfect structure as the eye of this ant cannot be attributed to random coincidences. The eyes of the ant must have been so since it came into existence. Otherwise, the ant could not have returned to the nest in the desert heat, and could not have survived. Indeed, eyes of all desert ants have been equipped with this system since the first day they came into existence. Allah (swt), the All-Knowing, created these eyes for them.

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Camel milk- The new hope

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Camel milk has been used for thousands of years. Although, camel milk is not  high in supply as cow milk- but it has a number of clear advantages over the more common supplies of milk- including more powerful nutrients, and better chemical compounds.

Camel milk has a distinct taste that’s slightly saltier, and more watery than other familiar milk varieties.

Due to its distinct taste, camel milk may not be people’s first choice on their breakfast. Camel milk is a great dairy substitute for people who cannot have regularly dairy product.

Medicinal use of camel milk

Camel milk has been used medicinally for centuries by nomadic people. There is a Hadeeth narrated by Anas (ra) – some people were sick and they said: “O Allah’s Apsotle (sa)! Give us shelter and food. So, when they become healthy, they said: “The weather of Madinah is not suitable for us.” Prophet (sa) sent them to Al-Harra with some she-camels of his and said: “Drink of their milk,” but when they became healthy, they killed the shepherd of the Prophet (sa) and drove away his camels. The Prophet (sa) sent some people in their pursuit. Then, he got their hands and feet cut; and their eyes were branded with heated pieces of iron. I saw one of them licking the earth with his tongue till he died. (Bukhari)

Camel milk is closest to human mother’s milk, which means that it gives us an ideal nutritive mixture, with many  benefits for our body than the other  alternatives we use quite commonly. It contains ten times more iron, and three times more vitamin C than cow milk. It contains protein as well as less fat content. Camel milk has greater contents of other vitamins and minerals, such as, potassium, phosphorus, zinc, iron and manganese.

Camel milk possesses unique, powerful immune-system components. Camel milk might potentially benefit for protection against certain auto-immune disease, and boost heart health, prevent diabetes, improve the immune system, stimulate circulation, treat autism, and lessens allergic reaction. 

The Camel Milk Association says it can be digested by people with lactose intolerance. Camel milk does not coagulate easily, even in an acidic environment such as in our stomach. Hence, it can easily get absorbed by our digestive system.

  • For diabetic patients

Low-fat camel milk not only contains healthy vitamins and minerals, but also is a rich source of insulin.  Dr. Hosom Habib, an expert in human nutrition said: “It also has an insulin effect, so it is good for those with both Type 1 and Type 2 diabetes. It has some protein with a molecular structure similar to insulin. People with diabetes will benefit from it. Camel milk contains fifty two units of insulin per liter, which is more than 60% of the average necessary external insulin administration for Type 1 diabetics. It’s, therefore, speculated that camel milk could help supplement insulin shots for Type 1 diabetics, in addition to its clear potential for diabetes prevention.

  • Immune-system

Camel milk contains various protective proteins, which may have the possible role of enhancing the immune defense mechanism. These protective proteins are mainly enzymes which exert anti-microbial and immunological properties. The role of immunoglobulin gives the immune protection to the body against infections.

  • Cancer

Camel milk contains a natural antibiotic called Lactoferrin; it could prove beneficial for those suffering from colon cancer

A research led by Dr. Hosom Habib, Lactoferrin, the main iron binding protein of the milk which showed a fifty six percent decline in cancer growth when applied to cancer cells.

Lactoferrin showed antioxidant activity, and could prevent DNA damage by binding catalytic.

  • Autism

Camel milk might prove to be beneficial for autistic children; autistic children who drinking camel milk have had an amazing improvement in their behaviour and diet. A study published in 2005 edition of the “Journal of human development” observed the effect of camel milk consumption, instead of cow milk, on autistic people. Researchers discovered that a four years old female participant drank camel milk for forty days, her autism symptoms disappeared. A fifteen years old boy also recovered after thirty days of drinking the milk. In addition, several autistic people twenty one years old consumed camel milk for two weeks, and were observed to be a quitter and less self- destructive. Researches show that autistic symptoms have been lessened, or erased completely when camel milk was taken regularly.

Camel milk was first mentioned in the Holy Scriptures as being a gift for hungry people, and a remedy for sickness. This claim is still valid today; it can be used as a medicine for various  diseases. Camel milk is a whole food- meaning it has enough nutrients to sustain a person through the day.


Still so busy: Give elders time before time flies


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The older people are never a burden, but a blessing and a source of Barakah for the home and the family. Their experience and life stories can enlighten you in a way that no book or novel ever can.


If you see anyone around yourself- please be a source of pleasure and help for them. Listen to them; they are the people who have no careers, no success, and no vacations to look forward to. The major portion of their life is past them. It’s them and their sickness. Imagine how depressing! If they are in your homes, or you know them by any other source, it becomes your responsibility and duty to look after them; make them feel important, and let them take part in everything that matters.


The best thing you can give them is your time, and your patience to understand them- even if they can’t hear you properly, are not able to remember anything that you told them the other day, their behaviour changes with you frequently, or if they require extra time to carry out the daily life tasks. Realize that this phase comes with physical as well as emotional weakness.

Before brushing off the thought aside, all of us should keep in mind that this age could come to us too; we are all aging, and if not now, but at one point in our lives, we might go through the same dilemma.


It’s when they leave you that you realize how much they have taught you, and how much effect their presence had- even if they were bedridden. When I lost my grandfather, I realized that there was no one who could replace him. After his death, I used to find folded  pages of useful articles in magazines and newspapers that he kept  for me to read, for which I never had the time when he was alive. He was the one who had all the time of the world to listen to my tantrums, laugh at my silly chatter, and share jokes with me. He would talk about his love for photography, his travelling experiences, and the things he learnt from them; never did he talk about his illnesses, or the pain he was in- but it was his love that made us all look after him.


Therefore, help them out- not because they need it- but because you can look after them, and do things for them; help them not because they are old and weak, but because you are young and active. Believe me these people can be your gateway to Jannah. You can take their prayers, and Duas, and conquer the world and hereafter.

The increasing number of old homes in our society is a clear indication that most of us have failed to consider them important, value their right to be respected, and no more recognize their part in our upbringing, well being and happiness.

The tales of the people there are heart wrenching; how their kids never come, and meet them; how they told them that they are useless once they retired, and how they promised to come back to pick them, but never did. On the other hand, it tells us about how more and more people are willing to take care of the ones who have been abandoned.


These words sum up what you attain and lose- if you take care of your elder ones, especially when they are your parents. A Hadeeth says:  May he be disgraced! May he be disgraced! May he be disgraced, whose parents, one or both , attain old age during his life time, and he does not enter Jannah (by rendering being dutiful to them) (Muslim).